How do you know if someone really is feeling you or not? I’ve been flirting with this guy on Twitter for about 2 months now, and that flirting hasn’t gone anywhere. I mean we haven’t exchanged numbers and haven’t gone on a date. Nothing. But he’s always liking my posts, and he always responding to my DMs. I want to ask him what’s up, but I don’t want to put myself out there like that. So knowing that, how do I figure out if he likes me?
I’m in a bit of a situation, and it’s not a good one. I’ll try to keep this short and to the point. So about 3 months ago, me and my friend went to a house party and I met this guy I’ll call Mark. Mark and I were really vibing with each other, but at the time I was in a relationship. Because I was committed to my ex, but thought Mark was a good guy, I introduced him to my friend. Since that night, the two have been talking and went on dates, but aren’t in a relationship. My friend says he likes Mark, but isn’t sure he wants to be tied down to one person. Heck, he dates Mark and two other people right now.
The dilemma is, Mark and I have been texting since we met. Our conversations weren’t romantic or anything at first, because again I was boo’d up and I introduced him to my friend. We would talk about sports, shows, and life in general. However, in the back of my mind I still felt drawn to him, and I’m pretty sure the attraction is mutual. Since I’ve broken up with my ex about a month ago, Mark and I have been flirting. Trust me I know it’s bad because Mark is talking to my friend. Well what’s even worse, is that I’m tired of sneaking behind friend’s back, and I’m tired of not being able to act on my attraction. I want to be with Mark. With all that said, I’m not sure how to handle this problem. Hopefully, you can help.
I read your reply to the question about being outed in college or whatever, and I thought what you said was pretty dope. I thought maybe you could give me some good advice too. See there is this guy on campus who happens to be in two of my classes this semester. He is real cool, and we are actually in a study group together. Well the other night, the other people in our group left me and this boy in the library, and the two of us just chilled and talked for hours. I think he was flirting with me, but I’m not sure. I’m attracted to the guy, and I would like to hang out with him in a more date like situation, but I don’t want to put myself out there in case he’s just cool people and not gay. What do you think?