Dating

If We’re Not in a Relationship Yet, Should I Buy a Valentine’s Day Gift?

T,

I have a question for you.  Should I be buying a Valentine’s Day gift for a guy I’ve only been dating for 3 weeks?  It’s weird because part of me thinks it’s kind of early for me to spend money on a gift for someone I’m not sure I’m going to be with a month for now. I mean the guy is cool, and we click, but our thing is still pretty early. Then there’s the whole thing that if I get him something, but he doesn’t get me anything, I may feel some type of way.  Although, I don’t want him to be pissed if he buys me something, but I decide not to get him anything.  Maybe I shouldn’t be this worried about it, but we are supposed to meet up Valentine’s Day and I’m running out of time to think on it. You’re help would be much appreciated.

-Black Cupid 93

Dating

Should I Be Buying Him a Christmas Gift?

Dear T,

I don’t have a major problem to ask you about, but more like a minor situation.  I’ve been dating this guy about a month, and Christmas is approaching.  I’m not sure if I should be trying to buy him a gift or not. While we aren’t official yet, we’ve been on several dates, and I haven’t been talking to other guys.   He says I’m the only guy he’s talking to as well.  But again, we haven’t had that conversation about us being in a relationship.  Which I’m find with.  But, what do you think I should do?   BTW, I’m a fan of the site.

Thanks in advance for the advice,

Charlie S.

Dating, relationships

What to Give My Boo for Christmas

Hey T,

Hopefully I have a simple question for you.  The holidays are coming up, and I’m at a lost as to what to get for my girlfriend.  We’ve only been dating for about 4 months, so I’m not sure if I should get her like a Coach purse or Michael Kors watch or something.  I don’t want to buy anything too over the top, but I don’t want to fall flat on my face either.  Suggestions would be appreciated.

Sincerely,

Lady Marmalade