I need some advice about a weird and frustrating problem I’m dealing with. Basically me and my boyfriend are in an open relationship while my job has me on the other side of the country for nine months. My boyfriend is legit bisexual, and I know sometimes he may crave something I don’t have. So while we’re in the open relationship, I told him it was okay if he hooked up with women. Also, even though we agreed I could top men only, I haven’t done it. I couldn’t bring myself to sleep with anyone. Well now this whole open relationship idea, which was kind of my suggestion, bit me in the ass.
Last week I found out from my boyfriend that a woman he slept with is pregnant. I’m still shook by the news. I’m mad he knocked a woman and I’m mad he was out here not being careful. My boyfriend apologized and told me he doesn’t want to be with anyone but me. He pretty much begged me not leave him. I’m just not sure I can do this situation. I love him and thought about us having kids one day, but not like this.
What would you do if you were me?
-Is This Endgame
Would you stay with someone who told you he doesn’t think he can be monogamous? I’ve been seeing this guy for about 3 months, and he told me he’s not sure if he be with just one person for the rest of his life. I naturally asked him if he was trying to break up with me. He told me he didn’t want to breakup, but wanted to know if I’d be okay with him hooking up with someone else from time to time. He promised it would be with people I don’t know and that he’d always be safe. I wasn’t sure what to say to him, so I told him to give me some time to think about it. 2 weeks later, and I still don’t know what to tell him. I really like him, but don’t want to be in an open relationship. Thoughts?