I’m writing you because I’m not exactly sure what I should do in this situation. My boyfriend of 8 months cheated on me. Or at least I think it’s cheating. He came out to his brothers about a year ago, and I guess they were cool about it. Well last weekend, apparently they took him out to a straight club and introduced him to some girl. They were under the impression that they could make him like women. And all my boyfriend can tell me is that after a lot drinks, his brothers dropped him and this girl off back at his place and they had sex. He says he doesn’t remember all they did, but just knows he had sex with her. He claims he told me because he wants to be honest with me. The kicker of this whole situation is that he apologized, but said it’s not really cheating because he’s still gay and that woman was a fluke. Like he’s strictly dickly. I’m just not sure how to process this. What do I do in this situation?
How would you feel if you found out a dude you are vibing with was actually with your cousin a few years back? I’ve been talking to this guy for about 6 weeks, and last weekend my cousin came to visit me while he was on Spring Break. Well when I introduced my cousin to this guy, my cousin was acting a little weird. So when the two of us got back to my place, my cousin dropped the bomb that he and this man, who I really like by the way, had slept together back at Miami Sizzle last year. When I asked the guy about it, he confirmed it. However, they both agree that it was a one-time thing. But now I’m confused what I’m supposed to do. I don’t want to be involved with someone that smashed my cousin. Thoughts?
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