I have a question for you. Should I be buying a Valentine’s Day gift for a guy I’ve only been dating for 3 weeks? It’s weird because part of me thinks it’s kind of early for me to spend money on a gift for someone I’m not sure I’m going to be with a month for now. I mean the guy is cool, and we click, but our thing is still pretty early. Then there’s the whole thing that if I get him something, but he doesn’t get me anything, I may feel some type of way. Although, I don’t want him to be pissed if he buys me something, but I decide not to get him anything. Maybe I shouldn’t be this worried about it, but we are supposed to meet up Valentine’s Day and I’m running out of time to think on it. You’re help would be much appreciated.
-Black Cupid 93
I’m going to share with you my problem, but I’m hoping you don’t judge me too harshly. So I’m trying to talk to this guy I met at a party over MLK Weekend. When we met, we just really vibed. Not to mention, he is sexy. The body, the voice, he’s just got himself put together. Since meeting, we’ve been texting and talking on the phone. It’s been great. That is until we decided to follow each other on Instagram. This guy has like 20,000 followers which kind of bothers me. He doesn’t own a small business, he’s not an entertainer, he doesn’t model, and he’s not a personal trainer. In my head, I’m like why in the hell does he have that many followers?
I keep thinking that a guy with that many followers has a lot of hoes in his DM, and I refuse to be a person in his hoe-tation. My best friend told me I’m overthinking the situation, but I’d hate to talk more and more to this guy, date him, and then get in a relationship with him, only to find out I’ve been competing with other guys on social media. What are your thoughts?
-Lite Brite Rob