I’ve been reading through your site and thought you had some good advice so I’m going to try this out. I’m having a problem with my boyfriend that’s really getting on my nerve lately. To give you a little background, over the past six months I’ve lost about 48 lbs and look the best I have in a minute. My boyfriend was initially very support of the weight loss, but over the last few weeks he’s gotten super clingy and possessive. I just don’t know where any of this is coming from. Appreciate the insight.
-New Me, But Not Who Dis
P.S., we’ve been together for over a year.
I’m going to share with you my problem, but I’m hoping you don’t judge me too harshly. So I’m trying to talk to this guy I met at a party over MLK Weekend. When we met, we just really vibed. Not to mention, he is sexy. The body, the voice, he’s just got himself put together. Since meeting, we’ve been texting and talking on the phone. It’s been great. That is until we decided to follow each other on Instagram. This guy has like 20,000 followers which kind of bothers me. He doesn’t own a small business, he’s not an entertainer, he doesn’t model, and he’s not a personal trainer. In my head, I’m like why in the hell does he have that many followers?
I keep thinking that a guy with that many followers has a lot of hoes in his DM, and I refuse to be a person in his hoe-tation. My best friend told me I’m overthinking the situation, but I’d hate to talk more and more to this guy, date him, and then get in a relationship with him, only to find out I’ve been competing with other guys on social media. What are your thoughts?
-Lite Brite Rob