The Lifestyle

7 Events for the Black Gay Man’s Summer Calendar

  1. Philly Black Gay Pride (April 27-April 30)

While Philly has never been my favorite city (no offense to the folks from there), this has always been a great kickoff to pride events on the East coast. Given that the event coincides with the track and field Penn Relays, the city is full of people. Not to mention, the city is in driving distance for many people in the Northeast.




My New Man Likes Cartoons, and I Hate It!

Dear T,

Before I ask you my question, I have to tell you how much I love your blog.  I visit it all the time.  Keep up Great work.  The question I have for you is about my dating situation.  I’ve been seeing this guy for about a month now, and I’m starting to notice a bit of a turn off.  He’s a grown man in his twenties, and his favorite shows to watch are superhero cartoons on Netflix.  While people I usually date love watching Scandal and Orange is the New Black, he is obsessed with the Spider Man and the Avengers. Should I take his like of kiddie things as a sign he may not be mature enough for me to be my mate?  Appreciate your thoughts.


Very Grown