Dating

Is This Man Flirting With Me?

Hi T,

I read your reply to the question about being outed in college or whatever, and I thought what you said was pretty dope.  I thought maybe you could give me some good advice too.  See there is this guy on campus who happens to be in two of my classes this semester.  He is real cool, and we are actually in a study group together.  Well the other night, the other people in our group left me and this boy in the library, and the two of us just chilled and talked for hours.  I think he was flirting with me, but I’m not sure.  I’m attracted to the guy, and I would like to hang out with him in a more date like situation, but I don’t want to put myself out there in case he’s just cool people and not gay.  What do you think?

Thanks,

College Chronicles

Dating, relationships

Straight Roommate Caught Me in the Act

Dear T,

I’m a sophomore in college and I’m going through an awkward phase with my roommate.  About a week ago, he caught me making out with my boyfriend on the couch in the living room of our apartment on campus.  Well the thing is, my roommate didn’t know I was gay.  I had always been careful not to get caught doing my thing, but the one time I don’t go to my room with a man, and this happens.  Since my roommate peeped me in the kiss, we haven’t really talked, and I barely saw him once in passing.  He couldn’t even look me in the eye then.  So what do you think I should do in this situation?  Do I talk to him to make things less weird?  Or do I ride it out and hope things get better with time? We’ve had a solid roommate relationship since freshman year, and I’d rather not have to find someone else to live with.

Thanks,

Busted 17