This site you have is pretty amazing. I’m mad I literally just found it. Good stuff. Anyway, let’s see if you can help me out here. I’m so sick and tired of one of my best friends lately. He’s been seeing his boyfriend or whatever for about a month now, and I know it’s been that long because I’ve seen his boyfriend for that long. Not that I’m dating his boyfriend or anything, but every time I hang out with my friend these days he has to bring his boyfriend around. If I hit my friend to go out for drinks, he brings his boyfriend. If I hit him to go to a house party, he brings his boyfriend. If I call him to go out to eat, he’s asking if he can bring his man. It’s like damn, can I just hang with my friend by himself. I want to talk to my friend about it, but I’m pretty sure he’s going to blow it up into a big thing, and I don’t want to get into it. What do you think?
-Not Jealous But Annoyed
I have a dilemma I’m hoping you can help me with. My sister and my best friend hate my boyfriend, and obviously this is a big problem. It’s so bad that my sister and my friend don’t even want to come to things where they know I’ll be bringing my boyfriend, and if they do come to events where he is, they barely say anything more than hello. I get that they don’t like him because of the things my boyfriend has done to me in the past, but if I forgave him, why can’t my family? How do I get my family and friends to a place where they will respect my relationship and my man? I can’t wait to hear your thoughts?
-King Tut 93